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Entering Marriage Life

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Wherever your relationship is, it is the perfect place to begin a new journey to lasting positive change; and LIFE is the perfect guide to show you the way.

Some question may occur…

What do you want for your relationship?

For most people the answer includes, “I want to feel connected to my partner again. I want to trust and be trusted; I want us to communicate from our hearts and feel the joy of our relationship.”

whichever way and whatever the way they do for life… they in natural desire to entering marriage life.

the ages will not show your readiness for marriage… maturitas of humans is extremely different, depend on experience they have for sure…

going ready for marriage in age 26 seems perfect., instead a lot of fears,  frightened around.

preparing for spend each day with couple and do everthings together, think together,.. decide together.. everything we should take it together.

ready for rumble about planning to have baby… this mean we will spend more money and forsure suppose to earn more money for family.

in Bali we are totally different with other island / country… when we got married, we automatically registered to the village citizen as “married couple” and have the duty to do all villager activity with no choice. if some event happen *wedding ceremony *temple tradition ceremony * funeral ceremony etc… we should take responsible on that.

sometimes, this will happen one month in row and make 50%-70% of each day will spend for this kind of tradition… i feel this will affect with business we do… in sensing of GOD, we must do it without any complain… we believe in balance.., we believe with tradition will automatically bring fortune for us.

in other way i pray for GOD with this marriage life to bring a new spirit, luck, fortune, and motivation!

Health, Marriage, and Longer life for Men!

be carefull with the essential boredom in marriage life…

Marriage life may become boring for another category of people who step into it with sky-high hopes and expectations. They need the entire life to be as romantic as the honeymoon days. They expect the same romance they had during the collage days, even after marriage, which are out of place in a marriage life. Marriage life is more to be the realistic part of life, unlike the romantic teenage. Those who expect the teenage days in marriage life, obviously find it boring soon in their life. Life can’t be all joy or rainbows and flowers bloomed everywhere.

Loosing physical attractiveness is another reason for the lack of interest in life. Keeping physically fit is essential to a happy marriage. Because a fit body only helps you to enjoy sexual pleasures, which is the base to marital relationship. Sexual activities help you to improve your communication and also help you to know each other closer. It makes intuitive sense that a good sex life is associated with a good overall relationship. There is a strong connection between sexual satisfaction and relationship satisfaction; couples who are happy with their sex lives tend to be happy with other areas of their relationship. Sex doesn’t have to get boring in marriage. As the years go by, your sex life should get better, to keep marriage life evergreen and ever refreshed.

well well well …

For the comparison the way they do the wedding ceremonial, i attach my wedding video via you tube

Video 2 –>

 

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